As the masseuse whispered that the massage was over, I didn’t feel a typical sense of disappointment that I would normally feel when relaxing bliss ends. Instead, I remembered that I booked this massage as a means of checking out the hotel it’s in.
Not for just myself, but for my kids and husband, too.
You see, my family and I set out on a vacation in the majestic area of Hudson Valley, New York this past week. With the tree-studded hills, natural streams and fresh water beaches, we knew it would offer a little something for everyone — even our two small boys.
We decided to extend our trip by a couple more unplanned days, and we needed a new place to stay. We keyed in on a popular lodge and thought a spa treatment for me while my boys and husband played on the beach was a great way to peek inside it and see if it offered everything we were looking for to end our vacation on a high note.
When I booked my spa appointment, I confirmed that my husband and kids could play on the beach. I even made sure they were beach-bound and okay to enter the sandy grounds when I chatted with the guard at the gate upon our arrival.
Yep, kids! We’re set!
My children bounced into the lobby with smiles and excitement wearing bathing suits and lugging little wagons with beach toys in them.
But when the concierge saw my family and our belongings, he expressed concern that the beach was only available to overnight guests. I kindly asked to talk to a manager. There must be some confusion, I thought. After all, I confirmed this information with two of the hotel employees before arriving.
As the manager exited her office, I could already predict her words by her disdained look. I knew to her I wasn’t an exhausted mother of two boys who were melting down. I wasn’t the caregiver of disappointed toddlers who were so excited mere seconds ago about something they were suddenly told they couldn’t enjoy.
I wasn’t even an upgrade opportunity. I just was another person not paying enough.
As entrepreneurs, we feel so much better about ourselves and the world around us when we can compartmentalize people into categories or labels through assessments and inventories. It helps us make sense of things that are difficult to understand, like personality traits and spending behaviors.
But the truth is, humankind is complicated. We’re full of complex emotions and there’s a lot going into making us tick.
Labeling customers is a common practice in business. It puts groups of people into spending “categories”. While that may help analyze trends, it’s a slippery slope as evidenced by me, my family, and the manager of this hotel.
When the manager of the hotel told me the resort’s policy on beach access, I cringed with hope that no one has ever used these words with our guests at Little Nest Portraits. I knew that canceling the spa appointment would disappoint the masseuse assigned to it and the tip she was surely looking forward to receiving.
But once it was over, my family and I departed, never wanting to come back again.
See, if you treat people like family, no matter what they spend, the money will come! We would have happily booked our stay if my kids enjoyed the beach that day. Being generous with experience and service, and empathizing with what the customers desire pays off.
Here’s the thing.
The problem with the hotel wasn’t that I expected everything for free. It was that policies weren’t communicated to me and everyone that worked there wasn’t clear on the rules, either.
It’s okay to have parameters, so long as they’re clear to your customers and you’ve made sure all team members are on the same page.
Own up when they are not.
Most of all, customers are human and they can’t be categorized when you’re engaging with them.
I’ve watched many guests walk in to our studios signing up to purchase very little, and leave having sold themselves on spending more than they were expecting. Not because we enforced some kind of rigorous sales strategies, but because we treated them like our own family – and that is not just great business, but great for the relationship we have with our community.
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